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"Crying and Laughter"

Charles Snider
June 14, 2009
St. Mark’s, Glen Ellyn

It’s a privilege to have the opportunity to speak to you all again in the context of our corporate worship. This is probably about my fourth or fifth time in the pulpit, and many of you have been kind and complimentary about my previous efforts. I must tell you, however, it’s easier to come up with a successful sermon when you do it only once every couple of years. To have to do it every week, or every several weeks is a daunting challenge, and one which, I am pleased to say, is always met with great success by each of our clergy. For this, we should all be very thankful indeed.

Christianity has lots of symbolism assigned to numbers. One represents a single God, two, the dual nature of Christ, three for the Trinity, four gospels writers, the five books of the Pentateuch, the six days of creation, seven being the number of spiritual perfection, and so on. Today I’d like to talk about the number two, or as I see it, two sides to an important coin – crying and laughter.

Many years ago – and this will surely date me – I remember watching an episode on TV of the Smothers Brothers. Some of you may remember them. They had, for that time, a rather cutting edge to their humor, and they often were criticized for some of the jokes they told. Apparently on a previous show they had made a religious joke of some kind, and in the days following received a lot of criticism for it. Whether it’s a blessing or a curse, there will always be someone around who is sure they know and are willing to tell you, “God doesn’t think that’s funny.”

What I remember about the show was their response to this criticism. I can’t quote them exactly, but here’s the general jist of it: If we are indeed made in the image of God, and we have a sense of humor, we must have gotten it from him.

There is a quote by Voltaire which I have always appreciated: “God is the world’s greatest comic, playing to an audience that’s afraid to laugh.” Why is that? Why should we be afraid? Isn’t laughter suppose to be “the best medicine”?

Humour and laughter are being increasingly used in a variety of therapeutic situations. Research into the use of therapeutic humour tells us it has the power to motivate, alleviate stress and pain, and improve one’s sense of well being. Articles in the popular press and medical journals frequently report that laughter, like exercise, can reduce stress, improve tolerance to pain, and alter bodily functions such as blood pressure, heart rate, muscle activity, stomach acidity, and even stimulate the immune system. All sounds pretty good to me, and frankly, it certainly beats jogging.

On the other side of the coin, some of the best television shows were those that could carry you successfully along on a roller coaster ride of emotions. Those that would have you laughing one minute, and crying the next. Shows like MASH, or All in the Family were particularly successful, and memorable.

That’s one of the most enjoyable things to me about the Bible. As I sit up there from my perch at the organ, I get to hear a lot of scripture being read, and in spite of the occasional comments from critics outside our denomination, we Episcopalians read a lot of it. Over the years I have come to expect that some passages will make my eyes tear up, even though I’ve heard them many times before. And there are those that make me want to laugh, or at least snicker. I’m not worried what people might think of me if they see me tearing up. But I do when it comes to laughter. I think maybe we all do.

So who better to find humor in religion and the Bible than the folks at Monty Python? From the movie, “The Meaning of Life”… the scene opens on a school chapel service, the pews filled with young, squirming boys. We enter just after the headmaster has begun reading from Python’s version of the Old Testament:

“...And spotteth twice they the camels before the third hour, and so, the Midianites went forth to Ram Gilead in Kadesh Bilgemath, by Shor Ethra Regalion, to the house of Gash-Bil-Bethuel-Bazda, he who brought the butter dish to Balshazar and the tent peg to the house of Rashomon, and there slew they the goats, yea, and placed they the bits into little pots.”

I think if we’re all honest about it, there has been a passage or two from the Old Testament that has left us wondering what on earth it was talking about.

Then there are those passages which demonstrate humorous understatement in Biblical proportions. From Genesis: And God made two great lights: the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night. (and then this afterthought) - He made the stars also. Oh, by the way…

Or this reaction from the disciples when Jesus awakes on the boat during a storm and calms everything with a word - "Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?" Well duh! Who do you think?

Or after the resurrection, after all the stuff the disciples had been through, and Jesus’ death, he appears to them, materializes before them in the Upper Room, and the Bible offers this reaction: “and the discplies were glad when they saw the Lord.” Gee, ya think?

One of the things that gives me a real sense of hope for my own personal salvation is the realization that God himself is capable of sarcasm. This would explain, if I may employ the Smothers Brotherian theory, from whence my own legitimate gift of sarcasm comes. Remember Job, lecturing and whining to God, and God’s response to this impudence? This passage is from one of next Sunday’s optional lectionary readings. God says to Job:

"Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me, if you know. Who determined its measurements-- surely you know! Or who stretched the line upon it? On what were its bases sunk, or who laid its cornerstone when the morning stars sang together and all the heavenly beings shouted for joy?” As if to say, “While I’m zooming around the universe creating stars and planets and galaxies, you’re just learning to wave bye-bye.”

What about the line, “Peter opened his mouth and said…” ? I’ve always wondered how Peter would have anything to say at all, if he didn’t open his mouth.

Back in the days when I attended Northwestern University I would occasionally go to chapel services at Seabury-Western . I sat there one day among the seminarians and heard this passage from the ninth chapter of Kings. It speaks of Jehu, a king of Israel who was noted for his furious chariot attacks and his slaying of the prophets of Baal. In this passage he confronts the delightful and ever-enchanting Jezebel:

“Jehu headed toward Jezreel, and when Jezebel heard he was coming, she put on eye shadow and brushed her hair. Then she stood at the window, waiting for him to arrive. As he walked through the city gate, she shouted down to him, "Why did you come here, you murderer? To kill the king? You're no better than Zimri!" He looked up toward the window and asked, "Is anyone up there on my side?" Two or three eunuchs stuck their heads out of a window, and Jehu shouted, "Throw her down!" And they threw her down, and her blood splattered on the walls and on the horses that trampled her body. Then Jehu left to get something to eat and drink.”

I tell you, it was all I could do to control myself and keep from laughing outloud. I looked around and saw that no one else in the chapel was struggling to control themselves in the slightest. I wanted to stand up and say, “Hello? Doesn’t anyone find that rather amusing?” I mean here’s this woman, taunting Jehu from above, and he solicits the help of two eunuchs – two guys who clearly already have a grudge to bear – they pitch her out of the window, and after she smacks the ground Jehu says, “Let’s eat.”

I’m telling you, the Bible can be a pretty amusing book.

Then there’s the other side of the coin.

I hear these passages over and over, and each time I think I’ll be able to control myself. Yet every time they cut right to my heart, and I can’t help but be overwhelmed.

From John: “Jesus asked his twelve disciples, ‘You don’t want to leave me too, do you?’ Simon Peter answered him, ‘Lord, to whom would we go?’

Or this exchange, where Jesus says, “ ‘You know where I am going, and you know the way. And Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we don’t know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ And Jesus said, ‘I am the way…’ “

Again from John, on the occasion of the last supper, Peter has refused to allow Jesus to humble himself by kneeling to wash Peter’s feet, and Jesus says to him, “Unless I wash your feet, you have no part with me.” Can anyone not be overwhelmed by the depth and emotion of Peter’s reply? “Lord, then wash not only my feet, but also my hands and my head.”

A very dear friend of mine, the late Charles Judson Child, served for a time as the Bishop of Atlanta. Several years back he visited this parish and preached from this pulpit. He loved church, and especially its pomp and splendor, in which he took great delight. If you were having a bishop visit your parish and were expecting him to vest simply for the service, you weren’t expecting Bishop Child. He often said, “When I vest for services I shall wear as much as I can possibly wear, and whatever I can’t wear I shall carry.” As he entered the cathdral for a particularly festive service, one newspaper reporter observed that he “looked like an immense Spanish galleon in full sail.”

He visited my parish in Georgia one Sunday, and from my position close to the altar I could hear the things he said quietly under his breath during the mass. As he lifted the consecrated host up for all to see he looked at it and whispered, “Dominus meus, et Deus meus.”

Do you remember when Thomas demanded to see the print of the nails and place his hand in Jesus’ side in order to believe? Do you recall that Jesus wasn’t present at the time, but then several days later he appeared to them again, and turning directly to Thomas he said, "Reach here with your finger, and see my hands; and reach here your hand and put it into my side; do not be faithless, but believe." Every year when that passage is read I think I’ll hear it this time without getting emotional, but I never do. And how did Thomas respond? “Dominus meus, et Deus meus.” That was Bishop Child’s reponse to the elevated Sacrament, “My Lord, and my God.”

But one of my absolute favorites is a passage that combines both laughter and tears almost side by side.

Those grumbling Israelites are standing at the Red Sea with Moses leading them. They’ve seen miracle after miracle done for them by God, yet they’ve never stopped complaining. As a Jewish friend of mine from Georgia used to observe “How would you like Moses’ job as leader of the world’s largest Jewish tour group?” He used to observe that some of those lines worked better if you used a good New York Jewish accent, in that famous tradition of making a statement by asking a question: “Were there no graves in Egypt that you had to bring us out to die in the wilderness?”

Whenever it’s read, I always hear it that way, and it makes me smile. But then the coin is flipped by the humbling response which Moses gives as he puts the Israelites in their proper place:

“Fear not! Stand firm, and see the salvation of the LORD which He will accomplish for you today; for the Egyptians whom you have seen today, you will never see again. The Lord himself will fight for you, and you have only to keep still.”

For years, I always asked to read that lesson for the Great Vigil, because it was so incredibly powerful to me. It was, each time, a struggle for me to get through it without my voice shaking, and I finally had to allow others the privilege of reading it. As some of you know, the older you get, the more easily can things move you to tears.

Both crying and laughter have a way of taking down our barriers, of dissolving them, so to speak, with the tears that are common to both emotions. It is when these barriers are removed that God can move into our hearts and do his best work.

Find and savor those passages that move you, that can either amuse or bring a lump to your throat. Sometimes it can happen when you least expect it. And next Sunday, when Job is getting chewed out by the Almighty, don’t be afraid to smile, and think to yourself, “Let him have it, God!”





 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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