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Fred Lundgren Memorial

January 9, 2010
St. Mark’s Episcopal Church
the Rev. Elizabeth Molitors

The LORD shall watch over your going out and your coming in, from this time forth for evermore. -- Psalm 121:8

The other day, I was on the Amazon.com website, looking for some electronic device, and when I found the item that might serve my needs, I began reading customer reviews. The reviews were pretty positive, and I was getting close to making a decision to buy, but then I noticed the dates on the reviews: 2006 and 2007. Two and three year old reviews! That must mean that the thing I was looking at was terribly out of date. Surely, there was something newer and better out there.

It took me a few moments to recognize the absurdity of that thought process – of discounting something from only two or three years ago as old and outdated – and it made me wonder about our fascination with the newest and most up-to-date thing, in this culture of 24-hour news updates and Twitter feeds. I’m not technology-phobic, by any means, but sometimes I think we’ve gotten out of the practice of appreciating values like longevity and constancy. Human beings have always struggled with the problem of immediate vs. delayed gratification, but in our current age, where we think that the thing that we buy today will be outmoded and useless by tomorrow, I think the problem is made worse.

Within that current cultural context, then, Fred Lundgren’s life stands in sharp contrast. As I talked to Fred’s son, Jeff, in planning this service, and as I read his obituary, I was struck by this idea of constancy – faithfulness, fidelity, steadfastness – in Fred’s life and work. He grew up here in Glen Ellyn, was a part of this church for years, returning to St. Mark’s after working out of state for a time; and even though he retired elsewhere, he made arrangements for he and his wife to have their final, memorial services in this place.
Jeff also told me about Fred having worked for the same company for 35 years, a feat that, for many economic and social reasons, doesn’t happen too often anymore. I read some remembrances from past co-workers in the online guest book that accompanied Fred’s obituary, people who used to work for him, and they spoke of what they learned from Fred, how the time and effort he invested in them continues to influence their life and work today.

And, as a lover of music and the mother of an aspiring teenage violinist, I was very pleased to learn that Fred was a violinist, and a founding member of the DuPage Symphony Orchestra. The symphony’s website, in announcing the musical theme for their current year, points out that the group is embarking on its 56th season. The site details the purpose of the symphony, first articulated a couple of years after the orchestra was founded. The symphony aspires to not only play beautiful music for current audiences, but to develop future musicians and educate and expose the community to a broad musical repertoire. They’re seeking to create a legacy, something that lives beyond themselves. And Fred was a part of that, from the beginning.
Fidelity, constancy, faithfulness. These are not only exemplary human characteristics; they are also attributes of God. The 121st Psalm ends by telling us of the God who “shall watch over your going out and your coming in, from this time forth for evermore.” And in the selection we read from John’s gospel, Jesus calls himself the Good Shepherd, the one who lays down his life for his sheep, and who gathers everyone to himself, all in one fold. If we are, as scripture tells us in the creation story, made in the image of God, then our life’s work is meant to be about making our outer lives reflect that inner image, doing our best to show forth the goodness resident in each of us, put there by our Creator.

What happens, then, when our life’s work is done? None of us is privileged to know what really happens when we die. But we have a hope, and that hope is what we’re celebrating here today. It is the hope, the Christian belief, that death is not the last word, but a pause – a mere comma – between this earthly manifestation of God-in-us and however it is that we will exist with God beyond this world that we know.

We are here, also, to give thanks to God for the life of Fred Lundgren, and for the opportunity to have had our lives intersect with his – as daughter, as son, as grandchild, as friend, as co-worker, as neighbor, as church member. But even as we rejoice in Fred’s life, and hope for his continuing life in God, we still suffer grief and sorrow at his death, at the fact that he is no longer physically present with us. That sorrow is not a denial of hope, but a witness and testament to another of God’s great gifts – love.

Let us pray:
Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in the joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. All this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior.
Amen.